The Write Way To Success (And Good Manners)

by Brendon Sinclair on December 3, 2009

My son Jack (AKA Golden Boy) was recently a finalist in a major community awards here in Australia.

The winners were announced for each of the 4 categories at a formal cocktail party in Brisbane, complete with tons of food, drink and music.

It was a beautifully organised evening with nothing left to chance.

Thank you notesLet The Writing Begin

After the Awards Jack did something he always does.

He sat down and started writing.

  • The Chairman of the Awards,
  • the Operations Manager who organised everything,
  • the presenting politician and
  • every other Finalist

were all sent a Thank You/Congratulations letter from Jack.

Letters & Chocolates

Earlier this week Jack was awarded an RSL Youth Development Fund grant (worth over $5,000) to travel to New York next year and do some charity work.

Choccies - Yum!3 people at Jack’s local RSL (Returned Services League) helped with his application.

Those 3 people today received a sincere thank you letter from Jack, along with a box of chocolates.

He also wrote a Thank You letter to the President of the RSL who awarded the grant.

Over 500 Handwritten Cards

After Jack completed his across Australia bike ride, he wrote a letter to every single supporter who helped him.

That was from his major sponsor to the Fahan School girls in Hobart who volunteered at a fundraising Cocktail Party to anyone who gave a donation.

500 handwritten cards with every single one having a personal message.

What You Don’t Write Letters For

  • You don’t write letters to get more business.
  • You don’t send cards to aid your personal branding.
  • You don’t give a thank you gift because you want something in return.

You do all that stuff because it’s just good manners.

Sure, all those other things – like the personal branding, like the more business, like the increased opportunities – will come to you, but don’t write those letters because of those things.

Write them because it’s simply the right thing to do.

Bloody Simple Stuff That No-One Seems To Do

This stuff is bloody simple stuff.

But, like a lot of things these days, not many people seem to teach them.

When I wrote the Web Design Business Kit I included what I see as basic business manners aspects like writing letter.

It was only later that I realised that people don’t know to take care of the little things and they don’t know that these little things can be very, very important.

Here’s My Top 3 List Of Little Things To Do

  • Use your manners – send thank you notes
  • Presentation matters – stop buy crappy clothes and splash out on decent stuff
  • Support those who support you – be a customer of your clients if at all possible

And of course, the best thing you can do for your business (whether it’s a web development business or not) is have the good sense to buy The Web Design Business Kit for yourself or a loved one for Christmas.

Cheers!

Brendon

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